Disclaimer: I have put a lot of thought in this profile to explain myself as much as possible. If you read to the end you will know me as well as I know myself.
I have two daughters (25 and 22) and two grandchildren.
(8 and 18 months). They are my world. Anyone I'm with needs to know I always try to be there for them. If they need a home, mine is theirs. You also need to know you should treat them like your own, but my kids are very independent and may be a little stand-offish. I am best friends with my kids and talk to them about EVERYTHING. That doesn't mean I tell your secrets, I won't do that.
My grandson needs a real man, that won't walk out, in his life. I need a real man that will love me at my worst and not walk out. I need someone that will not abuse me. I need someone that will talk our problems out.
I am also pretty much Asexual. Demisexual to be specific. Sex is just not important to me. So, if it important to you I may not be the right person for you. Contact me anyway because, that's not to say the right person can't ignite a spark from time to time. I consider myself bisexual because I have been with women in the past. Although, I'm not interested in a relationship with a women and I'm not into three-some's so don't ask. I don't hook up, play games or lead people on so don't contact me if any of this applies to you. I'm too old for all that.
I am an information sponge, I love learning new things. I would say my best talent is in researching. It's actually one of my hobbies. Other hobbies include, reading, writing, binge watching The Flash, AHS, Supergirl, Gotham, OITNB, and many, many others. I also love playing Tennis, although my grandson plays better than I do. I get the ball over the net though. I enjoy collecting Pogs, and stamps.
Old Hobbies I'd love to get back into RPGs, Amtgard, Spellfire and Vampire the Masquerade.
NFL is my season. I love catching every game I can. I also love the GA/FL game. I like LSU games. Other than those games, I'm not a big College FB Fan. In NFL I'm more about players than teams. I like Drew Brees, Reggie Bush, Eli Manning, and the Entire 1985 Chicago Bears team with a special love for Walter Payton.
In College I was a member of several organizations, including Quiz Team. I never earned a degree though, but I like 3 quarters left. When I left, I was studying Legal Studies. It was very hard and I loved it. It required a lot of research.
I do suffer from many health problems, both mental and physical. I won't go into it all here but just ask and I'll give you the list lol. I have schizoaffective disorder and ADHD and severe anxiety. I'm also diabetic. I can still walk 5 miles without really stopping and I'm not a med-zombie.
My personality type is INFP-t, which makes me a mediator in situations and I love to make people feel better. I want to explain my results a little so you can understand me a little more. This is according to the test I took . It says I'm 93% introverted, 59% intuitive, 72% feeling, 83% prospecting, and 100% turbulent. I am high-maintenance but I don't require a lot of money from my partner, just time. I am a handful and don't live well with others.
My bucket list:
Keep improving myself
Go to a Zoo (nope never been)
Susan G Koman Walk/run
Write an autobiography
Write a book
Find lasting love and someone to do some of this stuff with.
What am I looking for?
Someone I can count on. Someone who will actually work. Some will not walk out when things get rough. Someone who will love my kids and grandkids as much as I do.
Finally, write back if this interests you, and your into weird, awkward nerdy women.
What I’m doing with my life
I babysit my two grandchildren every day so my daughter can work to support them alone.
I'm also planning on going back to college and finishing my degree.
I’m really good at
Making things worse. My timing is terrible.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My favorite book is Tailchaser's Song. I also like Forgotten Realms books. All Hail Drizzt. I do read a lot of self-help books and non-fiction books too.
Authors I like:
Tad Williams, James Patterson, Mark Tufo, Paul Young and R.A, Salvatore
Music I like:
Pretty much all genres have something I like but less country and more 90's alternative is better. Who doesn't love Ozzy though? Of course, I find Hindi music great for meditation.
TV Shows I'm into now:
Mom, recently canceled 2 Broke Girls, The Big Bang Theory, Young Sheldon, How to Get Away with Murder, The Flash, Agents of Shield, Supergirl, Gotham, Arrow, IZombie, and too many more to name.
Pet, Split, Kidnap, Dead Pool, Suicide Squad, Ironman Trilogy, Thor I and II (and can't wait for the third), Transformers franchise, Star Wars franchise and so many more.
Purple and green and black together
Sushi, Chinese, Japanese, and Italian
Favorite Holiday: Halloween
Six things I could never do without
A Best Friend
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Literally everything. All the time. I really mean a million things ALL the time.
On a typical Friday night I am
I stay in and watch movies or TV shows. I'm a pretty boring person unless I have a partner in crime. Then I love to go out riding around, or taking short and long road trips. Or getting take out and cuddling up on the couch watching something we both are into, that's awesome.
I've also been deer hunting and that was pretty fun. I don't really care to do it again, but up for it. I'm pretty much up for almost anything.
You should message me if
You can honestly handle my personality, mental and physical problems at least without talking to me about it first.
You are Asexual or have little desire for a sexual relationship. Or wants to get to know someone awesome.
Females, or men (not looking for sex) close to the Douglas, GA area looking for just friendship should message me. I'm weird, geeky, and awkward but I've been told I'm hilarious, and a great person(not my words). All my friends just live far away I'd like someone to hang out with.